"Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.'  Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'" Eric Fromm

The Spirit to Spirit Connection

Marriage and Family Therapist

Stephen R. Plumlee is an Eastern Orthodox priest and a psychotherapist specializing in couples, and insight-oriented individual and group counseling.   He is certified in Imago Relationship Therapy by the Imago Institute as both a clinician and couples therapy workshop presenter.  Dr. Plumlee holds a Master of Divinity and a PhD in psychoanalytic psychology and is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Mental Health Counselor in Florida.  

 

IMAGO Therapy is based on the work of renowned marriage therapist, Harville Hendrix, PhD, and Helen LaKelly Hunt PhD, authors of best sellers, Getting the Love You Want, Keeping the Love you Find and Giving the Love That Heals.  Getting The Love You WantThe premise of their work is a way of understanding the basis of intimate relationships.  It focuses on what created the original attraction, what each partner implicitly hopes for and expects in the relationship and methods to recapture the initial energy with more realistic behaviors and promises. 

“What we are all striving for is authenticity, a spirit to spirit connection”.   Most people are coupled with someone who brings up all their past issues, says Harville Hendrix in his appearance on the Oprah Winfrey show.  “The purpose of marriage is to finish your childhood and if you finish your childhood, you will live happily ever after.”

Dr. Plumlee’s Orthodox Christian orientation is a spiritual and religious way of life that seeks intimacy with God, the relationship of dynamic love.  As an Orthodox priest, he believes that surrender of illusions and fears in fellowship with others is at the core of life.  Imago Therapy is a natural adjunct of his spiritual beliefs and his commitment to helping others achieve fulfillment in their relationships.

Heidi Godman, ABC News
Interview with Dr Plumlee


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